Divorce can be life altering for many people.  When a couple is married, they get into a routine and take control of differing responsibilities.  However, when the relationship comes to an end, spouses have to learn how to cope without one another and will have to take on additional responsibilities.

If you are currently going through a divorce or a legal separation, here are some things you can start doing now to make the post-divorce transition easier:

§  Learn to take control of your finances.  In many marriages, one spouse will take over the payment of bills and make sure the budget is balanced.  After a divorce, individual spouses will have to take over this responsibility, which can be daunting.  Start preparing your budget now and get in the habit of monitoring and paying your bills.

§  Organize important paperwork.  Put together a folder that will contain all of your important records and vital information, such as account number, bank statements and legal paperwork.  Should you need this information, it will always be accessible and you will know exactly where to look.

§  Build a network of friends and family.  After your divorce, you will need emotional support from time-to-time.  Having a network of friends and family that you can call in times of distress will help you get through tough times.

Going through a divorce in Jacksonville?  If so, now is the time to hire a Jacksonville divorce lawyer that can help you get through this challenging time.  To speak with an attorney, contact Ellerin & Hutchinson today!

Contrary to belief, not all spouses who choose to divorce are arch enemies.  In fact, may are friends and wish to remain friends by ending their marriages on amicable terms.  However, when you are friends with your spouse, your emotions may cloud your judgment and prevent you from going through with an uncontested divorce.

If you are still friends with your spouse and wish to pursue an uncontested divorce, follow these three tips:

-  Consider divorce mediation.  Talking through your family issues and working together to reach mutual decisions with help from a professional mediator will ensure that your friendship remains intact.

-  Encourage discussions on important issues and express your needs.  When talking about important issues, like child support and child custody, be sure to express your desires and wishes.  If you find that this leads to contentious arguments, it is best to work with a divorce mediator.

-  Hire separate divorce attorneys.  Even though you plan to go through an uncontested divorce, it is important that both you and your spouse have sufficient legal representation to ensure that your best interests remain protected.

Are you going through an uncontested divorce in Jacksonville?  A Jacksonville divorce attorney from Ellerin Hutchinson can provide you with assistance.  Contact us now!

Divorce doesn’t always have to be a messy, complicated process. It’s very possible for a divorce to be done in a civil and respectful manner, even when issues that are normally hotly contested are involved, such as property division or child custody .

Despite what some people might tell you, there are ways to have a successful divorce. The Vancouver Sun recently published an article that provides several tips to keep in mind both before and during the divorce process to increase your chances of resolving your divorce successfully:

• Put the love for your children before your dislike of your husband or wife.
• Do not fight in front of your children.
• Make sure your children still have access to both sides of their family.
• Understand that your children will be dealing with their own emotions.
• Make educated decisions instead of emotional ones.
• Seek out professional or expert support on every topic. Although you will have a legal expert in your attorney, feel free to speak with financial planners, tax experts, child psychologists, etc.
• Remember money is an important issue for both you and your ex. Make sure you are in the right mindset to discuss it.
• When it comes to dividing your assets and investments, make sure you understand the full scope of them, such as their risks, outlook, tax implications, costs, etc., then make an educated decision.
• Make sure you are on the ball with your financial situation, and that you have a solid understanding of where you stand financially.
• Surround yourself with people who can help you deal with the non-legal aspects of your divorce. If you don’t like your ex’s parenting skills, find a family law expert who can help you deal with this.
• When you’re feeling sad or angry, focus on things that make you feel happy. Go on a run, read a good book, have lunch with friends, pursue a hobby, just do something that takes your mind off the divorce and reminds you that you love life.

A Jacksonville divorce attorney at Ellerin Hutchinson would be happy to provide you with information and resources to help you get through your divorce successfully. We understand how emotionally taxing a divorce can be, and want to make sure the divorce process is as easy for you as possible. To schedule an appointment to discuss your divorce, contact the office today at (904) 866-4489!